Egoism

 Girls usually complain about their partner's selfishness. But what if it's the woman who's being selfish in the couple? Then the man was clearly unlucky. After all, the chosen one, by and large, does not care about his feelings and desires. But that's not the worst part. Let's discuss what else is dangerous about female selfishness in a relationship. Put a plus in the comments if you are interested in this topic, you do not need to register on the site, the answers are anonymous.

What is Egoism?

Egoism, regardless of gender, is the desire to satisfy only one's personal desires and needs, to put them above all else. On the one hand, this behavior is characteristic of every person from birth. After all, a baby cannot think about others, he cries for his needs to be fulfilled. It is ok. On the other hand, as a child grows up, everything changes. Innate Egoism takes on softer features. A little person learns to think not only about himself, he begins to take care of others, take into account other people's interests and opportunities. Of course, if the parents contribute to this. When mom and dad overprotect a grown-up child, they run to fulfill any of his whims on demand to the detriment of themselves, then a complete one-man man can grow out of him. What is the difference between male and female selfishness?

As they say: selfish men want to live only for themselves, and women want men to live for them. In any case, selfish people believe that the whole world revolves around them and everyone owes them. However, female and male selfishness still manifest themselves in slightly different ways in relationships. For example, an egoist guy is more often despotic in nature. He literally makes a maid out of his wife. A selfish man will never help around the house or with the kids. But using a woman for personal gain is always welcome. Female selfishness in a relationship with a man in such extreme forms is rare. But men also suffer from female selfishness in the family. Single-minded girls perceive their chosen one as a kind of addition to their unique personality. They believe that a man should fulfill all their whims at any cost, ensure happiness for her alone. And a man, of course, owes nothing to anyone. Do you agree or disagree? Write your opinion in the comments, I remind you that the answers are anonymous. Female Egoism in a relationship with a man: causes and signs

So, what are the reasons for women's Egoism? As a rule, all the roots of this problem go back to childhood. If a girl was taught that boys are obliged to worship her, and their desires can be ignored, then it is not surprising that an egoist grows up. Naturally, most of the time, this is a princess girl who is used to having only the best. She always got what she wanted without putting in much effort. Most likely, the girl was the only spoiled child in the family. 6 Signs of Female Selfishness in Relationships:

- The egoist does not know how and does not want to yield to the chosen one. - She doesn't trust her man. She doesn't care about his opinion. - Such a girl does everything the way she needs to, insists on her way to victory. - She demands all the time, but she doesn't give a man anything in return. All egoists are used to taking, but they don't know how to give. - If a man does not want to fulfill her desire, she throws tantrums and accuses the chosen one of Egoism. - A woman constantly manipulates her partner. What is the danger of female Egoism?

One of the dangers of female Egoism is that it destroys relationships with men and leads to loneliness. It is very difficult to get along with egoists, and it is basically impossible to build a full-fledged happy relationship. Their partners mostly have victim psychology. These people are too soft, driven. Another danger of female Egoism is the inability to truly love a man. But does anyone want to never know what true love for another person is? When you are together not for the sake of profit, but for the happiness of being together. This is a completely different level of relationship, believe me.

How to deal with female Egoism

What if a woman's Egoism knows no bounds? First of all, realize the problem, because it's hard to admit it to yourself. Next, it is important to constantly work on yourself. The first step has already been taken, now you need to learn how to track your selfish desires and respect your partner's opinion. What else can you do to eliminate selfishness in a relationship?: - Eliminate manipulation and blackmail. If you ask for something, do it gently and be prepared to refuse. - Realize that your partner has their own needs and desires, and they may not match yours. - Learn to negotiate, compromise, and control your ego. - Try to do something good for the chosen one, pleasant to him personally. Not out of self-interest, wanting to get something in return, but just like that. If you are not an egoist, but a loved one, remind him more often that you have your own desires, needs and feelings. You also need care and attention. Just don't blame, try to avoid quarrels. If it is difficult for you to find mutual understanding with a man, to learn how to negotiate with him, come to my online course "Secrets of female happiness"‎. You will work on personal attitudes and learn how to build relationships from a position of love and consent.